Well the talk went better than expected. "M" and "A" balled their eyes out, and were very sad, however "ML" really did not know how to react, I mean he is only 7 and him and dad never really bonded. We discussed what a divorce was, and then dating. I also mentioned inappropriate touching in case I happened to meet a loser.
This morning "M" came to me and said " you know mom, I am kind of over it. Daddy has been gone a long time already". It breaks my heart to see her this way, but as former military kids, what else can you expect.
We are strong and will make it.